Entrevista

• Conte-nos um pouco sobre si mesmo, se você fosse escolher algo, o que você gostaria que os outros absolutamente soubessem sobre você?
  If you mess with my home, my loved ones, or me I will absolutely end you in the worst ways. I’m not an aggressive person, but I will absolutely fight back with the fire of a thousand hells.
• Quais são seus hobbies, o que você gosta de fazer em seu tempo livre?
  Cook, eat, care for my plants, sew, wood-work, sex, language and linguistics, art.
• Como você dá o melhor na sua vida?
  I’m always friendly and outgoing. I engage people in very active listening. It always gets noticed that I just invest very deeply in being kind and listening to everyone including strangers.
• O que você faz para se divertir?
  Cook, smoke cannabis, eat, have long philosophical debates about random stuff, feed my loved ones and friends, commune with my plant babies, explore the limits of fantasy recreation.
• Conte-nos sobre a melhor experiência que você teve na vida.
  My greatest life experience is loving two wonderful people that love me back just as much. <3
• O que o distingue de todas as outras pessoas que você conhece?
  My very very long beard, and my charismatic personality. I am QUITE gregarious.
• O que você diria que são suas maiores qualidades e especialidades?
  Loyalty and the ability to communicate. I studied linguistics in my second undergrad, so language is my lady-jam!
• Qual é o seu "nicho"?
  Nurturing yet sadistic Daddy.
• Com que frequência você viaja? Você prefere viajar ou você é mais um casero?
  My home is my nest. I always say the second best day of a trip is the day I sleep in my own bed again. I do travel often, and love to. I’m most often flying to the west coast and Salt Lake City, but willing to discuss travel destinations anywhere. I hold a valid passport. I don’t regularly welcome people into my home space, so for meeting it’s 99.9% of the time at a garden or coffee shop. So yes. Ha ha!
• Que tipo de regime de dieta e fitness você segue?
  I am VERY food-motivated. I eat a lot of from-scratch food cuz I am an excellent cook as well as a major food-lover. I walk regularly, and try to spend my days on my feet. I’m not a fitness nutter cuz I love food too much and I don’t really find that need to even be associated with the toxic gym crew.
• Quais são as especificidades de seu estilo de vida que fazem quem você é?
  I’m first and foremost queer. Nothing about me fits the stereotypical models society presents as “normal.” I don’t wear deodorant, I am a kitchen witch in spiritual practice. All of that said I am also an excellent cameleon. I can talk the talk of a linguistics professor, a religion professor, clergy, pervert, pig, and anything else you can imagine. I’m the kind of person that you can take as a date to the opera, to your grand parents’ 50th wedding celebration, and then the unmentionable things that happen between the sheets become reality later that night.
• O que você gostaria que seus leitores soubessem sobre você que é único e até um pouco pessoal?
  I have spent 15 years working in the Het-cetera community as a presenter, pro-dom, and bootblack. That gives me a very special skill set to make a LOT of fantasies become realities because I have a deep understanding of risks and rewards for ALL genders. This also brings me to a recent exploration into how I could be open to being with a woman for the first time. Tee hee. I truly think the sky is the limit.
• Se nós sentamos na praia e bebemos vinho e comemos boa comida só você e eu, o que você iria me dizer sobre você e sua vida?
  To be very honest this is almost impossible for me to answer. I find myself going down all sorts of personal rabbit hole stories depending on where the person(s) I’m with inspire me to talk about. Every conversation I have is tailored to the experiences I’m having at that very moment, but I guarantee I have some kind of “old man” story I will attach along with it!
• O que os outros deveriam saber absolutamente sobre você?
  Two things. One: I am NOT shy about sex and have ZERO boundaries of what is allowed to be discussed in public. Therefore I need to know if you are uncomfortable with me saying things like butt-sex in line at the local coffee shop. Two: I am a very heavy cannabis user, and make no excuses. I have ZERO tolerance for shaming perspectives and language around cannabis use. Naturally medicating the self how a person finds works best for them is a hill I will die on.
• O que você mais gosta em si mesmo?
  I love my ability to reclaim my past. I’m unreligious and agnostic, but I LOVE to keep mystical rituals and routines. I have all kinds of myths I love and symbols of deities both real-world and otherwise that fuel my sense of joy and magick in the world that used to be so cruelly regulated by hateful Xtianity. I am HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and yet very very unreligious. Also all of this is packed with a bible and theology degree from a Baptist University. Reclamation is restorative!
• Quais são 5 coisas que você não pode viver sem?
  My two Loves, my plant babies (yes I am aware this is more than 5 by themselves!), a bidet, my own kitchen. These are not negotiable, not extractable from my life, and threatening them WILL get you on a very very short list of people I will do anything to ruin. What?!?! I’m a textbook Scorpio! ;-)